I WOULD BE YOUR LIVE-IN BEST FRIEND :P I don't have everything in common here, but I recognise quite a few things.
I have issues making friends with people because my default is loving and clingy as hell but I've been rejected more than once before and don't handle it well, so I stay and seem really distant, at least until a hypothetical certain point where I will probably go from like 0 - 60 overnight X) It's also why I'm far more outgoing and open with the love on the internet, where it's not (so?) threatening to people. And why I love that anonymous Christmas love thread so much.
Also, I had the same thoughts about meeting people as you for when I graduated, but I have managed it by finding clubs outside of uni; my table-top roleplaying has introduced me to a bunch of new people (mostly older and married men) and a new hobby that suits me anyway, so it's going far better than expected.
Also, I totally understand you on hating not knowing what's ahead. I must know ALL THE THINGS, hence my playing ahead in sims :P
So, um: you are awesome, I am your friend, and we will help you making everything work out for the best :3 (and if you ever want to just vent your brain about those topics you love, I will probably find them very interesting!)
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Date: 2012-12-03 01:14 pm (UTC)I have issues making friends with people because my default is loving and clingy as hell but I've been rejected more than once before and don't handle it well, so I stay and seem really distant, at least until a hypothetical certain point where I will probably go from like 0 - 60 overnight X) It's also why I'm far more outgoing and open with the love on the internet, where it's not (so?) threatening to people. And why I love that anonymous Christmas love thread so much.
Also, I had the same thoughts about meeting people as you for when I graduated, but I have managed it by finding clubs outside of uni; my table-top roleplaying has introduced me to a bunch of new people (mostly older and married men) and a new hobby that suits me anyway, so it's going far better than expected.
Also, I totally understand you on hating not knowing what's ahead. I must know ALL THE THINGS, hence my playing ahead in sims :P
So, um: you are awesome, I am your friend, and we will help you making everything work out for the best :3 (and if you ever want to just vent your brain about those topics you love, I will probably find them very interesting!)